A lot of men have learned their sexual skills from pornography which unfortunately does not minimally represent what it really takes to open women up to a space of incredible pleasure and deep surrender to her man. Unconscious sexuality mainly aims at orgasms and for many men female pleasure is nothing but a measurement stick of their masculine potency. It comes with fake orgasms, performance anxiety, sexual dysfunctions and the absence of real sexual intimacy.
Sex should not be another thing you have to perform well for and costs you precious energy. Conscious sexuality leaves you feeling energised, balanced and empowered. It is a place where you as a man can recharge and bring back balance without unloading your stress and pressure onto the woman. It is a precious tool for expansion, deepening and growth of your being. Your pleasure derives from within instead of from your falsely hooked horniness on some sexual fantasy playing out in your head while making love to your partner.
Feminine and masculine pleasure vary quite a bit and it is only through increasing our awareness and the practising of a different approach that we can enjoy a pleasure-filled sexuality with authentic and lasting attraction.
This field can include working through shame, sexual abuse, numbness and sexual dysfunctions. Apart from counselling we also offer a more practical approach through sacred bodywork such as breath work, conscious loving touch, tantra massages or heart-vagina healing sessions. It can help release numbness and reawaken your pleasure.
In addition we can invite and allow sexual energy, kundalini energy and the frequency of pure unconditional love to unblock and transform issues and traumas that keep you from having a natural, ecstatic, sensual and sexual experience with yourself and/or your partner.